Datebuddy

Datebuddy is the automated messaging tool that takes the awkward "what do I even say?" out of OkCupid outreach. It works as a browser extension that reads the profiles of people you've liked, uses AI to craft personalized, relevant opening messages, and sends them automatically — so you're making meaningful contact at scale without copy-pasting the same opener to everyone.

The result is more reach, better response rates, and higher-quality matches — because messages that actually reference who someone is tend to land much better than generic ones. For anyone who finds the messaging part of online dating exhausting, Datebuddy does the legwork so you can focus on the actual conversations worth having.